You know when you hear a song and it makes you cry?  Well, there are very few songs that make me cry.  I don't really cry easily.  But music moves my soul.  It breaths life, it can turn a mood it can push and pull.  But it is always there.  It is a friend, a companion.  It won't make you feel bad about yourself unless the feeling is already in your subconscious mind.  It won't shout at you and make you feel infurior.

If you're lucky it'll carry you away, make you forget for a while that your life sucks again.  But other times, alot for me, it'll remind me of friends I haven't seen, friends that are far away, people that I love and have left the world and the people I love.  Yes, the people that I love is listed twice.

There are a couple of songs that remind me of my grandparents.  (I have one living grandparent and I don't see her often enough.)  The emotions I felt when they passed away and how much I miss them now, are still harsh and raw.  I don't know if they'll ever go away.

There are songs that remind me of two of my best friends in the world.  My missing them is brought to the surface and stings daily.  One of them ... I know where she is & I know that she is safe.  The other ... I have a vague idea and he is in harms way daily.  The one thing that these friends had in common was the way we used music.

Music was an expression.  We shared it in our lives and honestly, they both supported me and my craziness.  I like to sing and I sing loud.  I don't sing in my range usually because Opera really (while it is good ...) just isn't something I listen to regularly anymore.  (Yeah roll your eyes!  I listened to it in high school! I was a Soprano at some point in my life & if coached I could be there again! :-p)  That and I gave up trying to perfect the rafter portion years ago.  So I sing along to rock songs by bands like Linkin Park, Green Day and Good Charlotte.  Or even the country queen Reba.  Lately it's been Miley Cyrus and Hannah Montana.  (After all I do have a 7 year old that loves music too.)

But lately there are two songs that make me cry and move me in the first eight bars.  Tim McGraw's "If You're Reading This" and Sugarland's "Stay".  Both remind me of my best friend that is so far away.  The music moves my soul so that I can't help but cry.  I can't get through them.  McGraw does so well on that song.  I understand the meaning behind it having served.  I fear the meaning behind it as well.  I don't want to get that letter.  I have a lot of friends in the service still and they all mean a lot to me.  But this one ... he knows more about me, how I am, why I am and he accepted me as a friend without judegment.  I miss that about him.

As for Sugarland's "Stay", if all of you refer back to the song in the previous blog ... those of you who know me and my Sunshine will understand the song.  It greatly expresses my frustration.  Sadly nothing can be done until he gets back from Iraq.  Is it wrong of me to have asked him to help me secure the custody of my child so I can go back into active service?  We want to be married anyway.  I just asked him to help me get there sooner rather than later.  I read an article where ar soldier deployed and her ex can in and got custody of her kid (even though she was remarried and she'd left the child in the custody of her husband) just a few days before she deployed.  She tried to regain custody upon return and the judge said no.  I don't want that to happen to me and my mom have to fight a mess.

My deal with my ex would be  ... as long as he doesn't pursue custody while I'm gone, when I get back he can drop the child support as long as he signs over his rights to her.  That way my Sunshine would be free to adopt her as he has expressed the desire to do so when we are finally married.  His opinion of my ex and his treatment of my Bug isn't very high.  (but anyway off topic ...)

We both love music.  We share it, we'd sing random songs that meant something to us. 

Music will continue to feed my soul.  Music will continue to be everywhere.  Music will be here long after I am gone. 

I hope some of this made sense to someone.  If not oh well.  It makes me feel better anyway!

One of the best songs ever.  It speaks to me.  One of the few songs that can make me cry in the first eight bars.  Pop over to myspace as it is playing there as well.

Sugarland - Stay
 
Add to My Profile | More Videos